The New Hostess and the Unspoken Hierarchy
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The New Hostess and the Unspoken Hierarchy

“Don’t blame the host for a full dining room”

My daughter has only been in the industry for a few months as a hostess and has caught on pretty quickly, but lately she's been coming home complaining that servers are always snapping at her about their sections.

“I feel like servers hate me.” She belted out after one of her shifts.

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Why I Didn't Tip My Server, and Perhaps You Shouldn't Either
Finances, Tipping Culture Jennifer Pitts Finances, Tipping Culture Jennifer Pitts

Why I Didn't Tip My Server, and Perhaps You Shouldn't Either

If you live in Canada, you may be experiencing tip fatigue.

Everywhere I shop, whether it’s for my vitamins or other essentials, I am being prompted to tip up to thirty percent.

I work in the tipping industry and have for over 25 years, but it’s becoming quite frustrating, especially with more taxes and fees that seem to be creeping into our bills.

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How to Stop Reacting and Start Regulating Your Nervous System
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How to Stop Reacting and Start Regulating Your Nervous System

If you have spent years in the industry, you may already know the pattern from the front of the house to the back.

When the restaurant starts to become busy during service, tension between colleagues can rise.

It can be quite common, like a few years ago when a chef scolded me for ringing in the wrong steak for a set party menu —Why the fuck are you ringing the fillet mignon, and not the New York striploin?

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